With a beautiful dream, we bid farewell to the innocence of childhood, entered a stage of life, another golden ------- youth, the development of this important period of life, life is important from the young to mature stage . this time I am the door of tissue and organs quickly generate growth, slim girls, the boys also become personable. We own both the growth of the joy of growing up, but yet with a lot of distress and confusion . For example: With age, a strong sense of independence so that we and the parents and teachers communicate more and more difficult, more and more conflict, communication was more difficult. So many of the psychological rather then with friends, partner with teachers and parents do not want to say. and sometimes due to lack of proper and correct guidance and practices may sometimes be biased; In addition, at this time we would also like people on an equal footing with large at this time and there are many contradictions in the mental: increasing material requirements and actual capacities of the requirements of morality, independence of the poor and the strong dependence of many contradictions. This time, the special psychological needs of parents and teachers to give you proper education, guidance, or when everyone behavior and ideas are suppressed, it may appear to parents, teachers, strong dissatisfaction, causing the surface to the parents, teachers bow down, behind you go its own way. Develop a lie, lie bad habits, if more case of the bad people, match up, it is very easy for everyone to deviate from the correct path, so we in this important period of life, all of the youth to make an accurate self-awareness, and good grasp of the self, to society for the future and lay a good basis, and today we held the seminar on the theme Pay attention to their demeanor, appearance, girls also sought to give the left a perfect impression of its own, it was for his comparing yourself with others, and compare the results often are not satisfied, feel self-inductance of short stature and dwarves First, that their clumsy fear that they will be ridiculed, but not to the playground, about her lack of a feature and not with others exchanges, etc., so some students to change their image and pay attention to wear, in order to lose weight and blind weight loss, diet, and tweezers, blind pursuit of fashion and lost true self, this is really worth the candle, in fact, in real life, large Most people's looks very ordinary, but very few stars, not to mention the days of not necessarily star gone well, for example, beauty to the processing of the nose, then the nose will be dress is a surface operation, such as personality and quality of white lantern bulbs, light bulbs are white, lantern is red lanterns, bulbs are yellow, the yellow lantern lanterns. : Such people will not be ugly even without make-up where to go. state of mind, pick out their own problems and shortcomings of many appearances, look down on yourself, put yourself in the position of inferiority, this is very dangerous and ultimately self-love will not be interpreted by the others look down into their own. resulting in decreased self-confidence have inferiority complex, hard to imagine a man with inferiority complex, intense competition in such a firm foothold in society, we should strive to Discovery self-satisfied, in the self-awareness has a comprehensive and objective and accurate based on the pleasure accepted all of the self, including strengths, weaknesses, strengths, weaknesses. dialectical view of all their advantages, disadvantages, calm acceptance of others is not a perfect self-criticism and help. For example: How do the teacher's criticism, most of the teachers, students can understand the real intention. and some have I thought, the teacher has a point, you just really do not, but with strong punishment on the surface, which is very inferior to cover up fooling self, which is a typical manifestation of inner inferiority complex. As the saying goes: can not be pure, no one is perfect, impressed. like all covered with animal skins, then you will not pierce the feet. feet. Since then, he could not worry about a stone punctured foot. This is the first shoe. the story of the hunter can not afford all of the earth covered with animal skins mm Obviously, no one can do; but he has created a Genjiao himself moving with the fur, which reached to the whole earth are covered with fur effect. There are many things need to abandon the idea of the earth covered with fur to make a pair for their own shoes Genjiao . Just as Islam's to me in the past. the real world there are too many like , let others feel your cute; you can not change his humble origin, but can be hard to change their own destiny, let others light no longer see ourselves; You can not change the error has occurred, but can learn from mistakes experiences and lessons learned and success as soon as possible similar to their own; You can not get everything CRITICAL CARE wishful, but can go all out to do what, so that their dedication will not regret negligence or not; you can not predict tomorrow, but can hold today; you can not control other people, but can hold their own; you can not determine the length of the rope of life, but through the unremitting efforts, it kept up thick, gorgeous together. pleasing themselves and adapt to the environment, How do you choose will directly affect the road of life, will directly determine the success or failure of your career. Only by continuously hold their own advantages and potential adjustments to the state of their own best intentions with the brain to plan their own design, I believe we will be able to find a suitable road.
Second, the design of self
While self-satisfied, self-design of the future. the conditions necessary for teachers to ask for candidates 18 to 23 years old. Body slender, more than 1.60 meters tall, soft white skin, dignified and generous, with a temperament. One time she was anxious and said: Why do light to these conditions, I am most afraid of work hardship, and the countryside, I had a burden to pick two hundred pounds. : Today is the Internet age, if it has used the analysis of its own advantages, such as human understanding of the world state of life, understanding of the community's attitude towards life and work of another example, the pragmatic spirit of the young women do not have many advantages. so low for their skills, knowledge and narrow conditions level on the night she decided to share a large study and two years later, she not only for the three professional certificates. but also a joint venture towards the door, laid-off workers two years if nothing is still learning, take a casual look for a job mind, I am afraid that now she'll still be candidates in the snags. some can be seen everywhere from the collision into a wall because of lack of knowledge, no skills, and then the door into the joint venture is owned by three professional certificates.
vocational school It is in the employment of students into society on the eve of the last before school. If the effect of education is directly related to our future, and even fate. and many of our students do not realize, every day and just for a day monk hit day clock, no goal, no hope, no power, no ideal, I do not know what the future, their future can do. Some students of seven or eight lessons East tour visiting the West, class listless, it is a loss, completely lost myself, how is this bank? life for decades, if a teenager now and start mixing, how to get it the next few decades? some students may not want to say a vocational school, or the basis for my bad not learn, teachers and other reasons not speak. This honestly should not be used as an excuse for their own do not work hard, only to seize every opportunity to present actions will change the reality of everything. Therefore, to the future in the community established, then we should first understand the situation we face as a child, the parents take care of us before the age of 18, for our food and clothing, and now some of our full eighteen years of age, and some will reach eighteen years of age should be considered in South and eighteen foreign countries rely on the parents if it is a very shameful thing Now we are school, although not in favor of the students go out business, but does not mean we do not have business sense, no sense of mission, we are more The parents should consider supporting us today, to the students of the proposal is ; early Six Questions: 1 What is the goal today, I .2, the core of my big goals are .3, and today the three most important things I have what is .4, and today I am going to learn how can something new. 5, and today what I am going to progress, a little bit of .6, I am happier today, how to enrich. night night was six thinking: Today I completed a small target .2, I received today that into goals. I learned today What? 4, I was not good enough today, .5 in what I would do better to .6, I'll aim for that? day after the day, tomorrow and yesterday there will be worlds apart, example: How many push-ups you can do, once you can do 300 do, might do 10 the first day to breathe, from the beginning of 10 more a day, Just one year later, after two years if we continue, you will achieve The goal of the 600.
three and challenge themselves
a fee of up to 3,000 million Stallone, a young man, earns a dollar a day, to make a living and later went to the gym when sparring, and each time was beaten was badly battered, was design to be a star, actually rejected the 1850 meeting have not given up, then he finally written in his hard work, personal struggle, , only today's KFC myth around the students in our many successful students have 98 Arab Emirates Foreign Affairs of Huo red pigment, 99 electric clothing Dong and 96 PC's, etc. are not successful, but they have a common characteristic, that is, as long as the unyielding, there is no failure, only temporary without success, in order to succeed. As young people we challenge ourselves to the first weakness:
1, strengthening the spirit of accomplishment: a very emotional changes youth strong, it was said to be very vivid stormy period, when the achievements, the cheering, impassioned, only I alone can, and once failed, then again into a state of extreme emotional distress joys and sorrows, to see the phenomenon of irrational, then anger, resentment, and some students, as long as Yiyanbuge to two students within classes by principal up to some water, and later developed into two quarters of students pushed up one of the students in the self-inductance in pushing a disadvantage, so look for other classes during recess a few a friend, noon to find each other in retaliation, causing head injuries to the students suture, and finally comes to repeatedly urge students and parents want to give the opportunity for learning, the school given level of field probation sanctions, nearly five thousand non- medical expenses and loss of fees from these students, according to the size of the responsibility shared equally. University of think to water, and pay such a heavy price, and even friends in order to earn a face, we have been very difficult to hurt the parents and their bitter classmate friends, worth it? many students who embark on a criminal path which is not a spur of the moment, causing thousands of bitter hate it, please think about it, If we had a few students to think twice, but to consider some consequences not so reckless, they avoided completely satisfying. So we have to learn to control their emotions, failing to ask a few why, and often successful people is by no means quick to bristle of the ordinary man, but those rivers, humble in victory by defeat br> 2, careful friends, old saying: True friends do, think about the University, many students are likely to encounter what he knows to be wrong, can be friends for their help, how to do? go, this is the true friend? This can only be met with more failures than. There is an Arab proverb says. ; Kuaxiazhiru tolerated. should dare to resist this kind of bullying, fighting, but do not momentary Pifuzhiyong, impulsive, violent revenge, it can only be someone else's mistake to punish oneself. At this point, it should please parents and teachers come forward to help solve when necessary legal action. but definitely not a moment Allusions anger, hurt the students, hurt the parents. especially when radical ideas in their own lives, if you have friends to be able to timely advice to give a correct analysis, the correct solution . That will benefit you immensely.
our friends to pay more critical friends, that criticism of mistakes sincere friends their own shortcomings and deficiencies, they say, the wrong time to point it out to have friends and can help to correct, or hedge against the Weiran vaccination of our lives is a major blessing. to pay the Friends of German high, with integrity, honesty, well-informed people make friends, not with those rhetoric hypocritical, lying cheat to make friends; strength has been the Friends of the Qing Dynasty in the early Han-guang, Progressive; and who better to have been right, Zeyue back. . make friends with those who have been strong, like a coordinate or a frame of reference, people have compared psychological, I'm much stronger than he, to pay the Friends of learning, ignorant. who do you mean he hears what, when say hello, and only know that does not distinguish right and wrong eat, drink, play and eat only know who is absolutely ought not associated with him as a friend, otherwise it will harm life is useless. For example: some students cheated out of loyalty to lie online and discipline of teachers, some students smoke knowing that other students, the teacher asked him, saying did not see, some students see their friends had been wronged, and fight, students Think is it a life of crime to do?
3, Institute of doing things
old saying: have good manners, culture of civilized behavior, foster social awareness: civilized behavior; mannered to do, 翘起二郎腿; their actions to be timely, appropriate. such as the requirement to wear school uniforms, wearing badges, it is essential to the quality of social enterprise, if you are good today, wearing uniforms, badges forgot to wear today, Button 1 points deducted 3 points tomorrow, you want to set up hard classmates honors classes, so you draw a black day, students teachers like you? students still are not so big feet before going to sleep, often without taking a shower an odor went in front of people, can someone like you? some students to express themselves well informed about the non-stop la la wow, did not give others a chance to speak, between the students was harsh, mean, too reason not to let anyone, unreasonable but also identified two-thirds as long as people refer to him without him. You say that people who love and together, therefore, actions should always be in mind, with others, be kind to others, Yue satisfied that the others mentioned here a lot of praise praise of others is sincere, Chen-chen in the praise, not hypocritical and insincere flattery entertaining speech, a lot to let others know how to help others in your presence, the value of his at the same time, you also get the students the respect and trust are sincerely happy.'s famous sea is mutually beneficial, and interest in life was first based on the basis of altruism, a mind free from the minds of others, people who are absolutely will not have you, fate has always been fair.
4, away from bad habits
smoking harmful to health, well known, but individual students still go its own way, to provide all test: you can see the class teacher, so that absorption who lit a cigarette smoke and smoke, smoke in your mouth, not inhaled into the lungs, with a damp white handkerchief (or several layers of gauze) leaves out the smoke directed at the handkerchief. repeated 3,4 times, to see if What is happening, a layer of clear yellow imprinting is tar, is a strong carcinogen, if it is inhaled into the lungs, the dip in the lung tissue, and can not be removed, three, four cigarette this way, students in the We just do not mature and strong physical resistance to poisoning by this, which will bring harm to our life, and now China is the country with the largest number of smokers, accounting for 1 / 4, increased the number of smokers first in the world, on the contrary, the amount of tobacco consumers in developed countries slow down gradually less, people have gradually formed a consensus on, smoking is a manifestation of low quality, not only pollute the environment and the harm has been a hundred, the students If you do not want to become the future of lung cancer, oral cancer, throat cancer, esophageal cancer and other cancer-ridden people, use your willpower on cigarettes to say , shops, dining tables, advertising is everywhere in the wine, welcome period of friends, it is indispensable to heighten the atmosphere with the wine, smoking and drinking more boys to sprinkle the illusion that is grace. In the application of human civilization in the history of wine The most common and oldest is used for disinfection, relieving drugs, followed by drinks, our data show that the number of young people drinking too rapid growth of healthy adults, moderate drinking will have good impact on However, excessive alcohol consumption will make the physical and psychological dependence to alcohol, drugs are a broad sense of alcohol, a lot of harm to human health, the light slurred speech, incoordination, weight who lose self-control facial hair blue, when the blood alcohol level over 0.5% lead to death, young people are in the developmental stage, the alcohol will adversely affect each system, more susceptible to dependence, while the students were drinking at a party, excessive drinking is more likely to be affected nerve, ability to identify errors, easy fight, emotional control, etc., and juvenile delinquency in the proportion of crime, drink large part, the students have for your health to social stability, we To the wine to say Once coated with drugs, treatment is very painful, there is a journalist in order to help families get rid of drugs, as they make a drug abuse or drug addiction after the example, not a result of anti-drug addiction, his own personal experience with drugs do not warn people try, or regret, how to prevent drug abuse it, we need to have good decision-making capacity, and resolutely refused to partners bad request, do not teach a bad friend, do not smoke, drink spilled food and do not accept gifts from strangers, to establish a good way of life, away from the awareness of drug prevention.
young people was always a little time a lot of dreams, the realization of the dream depends on time, teachers, parents, and individual efforts to reach. But before reaching the dream always go through a lot of twists and turns, the ugly duckling fairy tale into a white swan like in a flash, Cinderella into princess seems to be also between moments, but in fact, growth is slow Suisi suddenly, Although there is a runaway horse track to be found, it seems natural heavens are even more need of help, if we get from parents and teachers provide timely guidance and help, will grow up happier in Cinderella, the Ugly Duckling When will the small heads held high.
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