When you borrow money from family and friends !

 Motivation, but sometimes also because this is not the damage from the fuzzy paste. In particular, borrowing the money thing, a slow middle urgent, there is really fake, a lot of time to put us out of kindness to do good, get the end of the time was injured. My own feeling is that the so-called family friends and relatives to borrow money and never borrow more than is even less, and we take the time Ken Ken, but when Leng Leng, because of the family, know that you do since the vision of the old Ming embarrassed, so The borrower Yang Bailao as worse than the heart, but as an outsider if you dun do too, and finally inside and outside is not exactly who would be you, it is because of this, more families will be willing to you to borrow money When the principle that a bit awkward, but good after that can reduce the number of embarrassing, or within the family, neither the rules, much less accomplished. Second, the rules of rational beings, as in I have the following rules: to help brothers and sisters of the generation , in principle, to help the next generation; help people to help patients who do not eat rich, investment and operation of things do not come to me; elders how many polite, less the same generation and from generation to go along with weddings and funerals were almost; really need love I visual relief, but do not borrow money, which is necessary if it is needed most, I borrowed the money you do not intend to you, so the day has become my heart. The third initiative to understand the needs of their families, providing appropriate financial support Sometimes you can clear the appropriate topic (such as the family's medical fund), I would particularly those funded to carry out public activities, particularly family and determined to force the brothers and sisters (the equivalent of more points they force me to the point of resources ), some older and frail family members point and I will be the appropriate means. by and by, by the principle: first, its not easy to speak to borrow money, as long as possible their stay a little bit down to be their own support. If borrowed, often to lend you money to people contact, one that your gratitude, and second, people think you're not burning bridges. The date must pay back the money to say clear and we must find ways to pay off within the said period, the other is best to write IOUs (number of 5,000 and above). If it is by? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ?
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